I am so happy for the update! Sounds like your MLCer may be starting to grow up. The anger will flare up from time to time, but he is going to settle down...but not on your time clock.
You went through h@ll and back w/this man and his antics. The Christmas tree year round, the plants and the frat room, dishes, etc. You came out the other side and have come a long way. You've been the sole parent to your sons and they know that you are always there for them.
As for the new man who has had his eye on you....he knows that you are the prize and he's willing to wait for you. I wish you nothing but happiness for you richly deserve it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
