I think she's been upset about an argument we had on Sunday about the relationship.
What did you argue about? Sorry to hear that--sex and an invite to lunch Monday was promising.
Originally Posted by "Dbx80"
"Did you want to get dinner tonight with me?"
"No. I adore you, so this is hard, but I won't do an open relationship." I would only send this message if you are actually up to enforcing this boundary. I deeply regret boundaries I stated then flipped on. It's your call to go boundary / no boundary, but if you set a boundary, be sure you're up to enforcing it.
