but you are better off moving forward in your mind and life, grieving healing and therapy if it helps u-- if she is clearly not going to consider working on the relationship
She can change her mind- at any point especially if her new life crumbles or the Individual therapist can get her to do the real work on herself
remember they leave because they are unhappy They usually fall into MLC in the first place due to unresolved childhood issues
this is not your fault and nothing could make her resolve those issues except for her and a good therapist
Some Mlcers will recover and choose the path back..we see them here sometimes...
but most will pursue what appears to be the more fun option... to start over to play..leave responsibility behind, spend..vacation new people and affairs
what they fail to see is that wherever they go they will take there unhappiness with them and the new things whatever they are will fade in time and only create more unhappiness
I rarely see anyone and I know o one who has left a M in MLC and created the life of their dreams but more likely see the MLCer in a worse mental condition years later we cant fix the inside on the outside
hang in
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
