So cancer aside. I need some advice. I did what you all said. I stopped talking to her about my cancer as soon as I did things got way better again. I’ve covered many things with the doctor. Made several decisions. All without speaking a word about it to her
Then yesterday she asks about it. I tell her “I’ve spoken with doctor several times and I got my blood drawn today and I should start chemo by the end of the week. She explodes. But not in anger
Her. WHAT?!? You didn’t tell me any of this?!? Why wouldn’t you say anything?
Me well the last time I brought it up you said it was my decision and you seemed very stressed out so I decided to keep it to myself
Her. it does stress me out , living here stresses out, our S stresses me out, my job stresses me out. But you should still tell me. I AM YOUR WIFE! WE ARE MARRIED! WE HAVE A KID TOGETHER!! (Tears are starting in her eyes). You have to tell me these things.
me. I am sorry. It just seemed you had enough on your plate ATM and you told me it was my decision
We then walked outside and I filled her in on everything. She has been “clingier” lately. I was shocked.
