Yes we're definitely both on the mortgage. We have already agreed everything will be split 50/50 equally - house proceeds, joint bank accounts. We have agreed in writing to not split the balances of our personal bank accounts, or pensions. I've sorted my 2 pensions out - knowing W, she hasn't done this yet. I'm not helping!
We've also mutually agreed on which items in the house we'll take.
Maybe when I have my own place I could get some stuff too - can't afford it at the mo and no space at parents' house!
Me - 36, W - 32 No kids T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr Discovery - 14 May 2019 S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019 D & House sale final - Feb 2020