Hey U is there any value in raising her ‘fear ‘ directly at mc as a topic to sift through and resolve, with you actually raising it as something you wish to discuss to assist her in overcoming it? Or is she just useing it to hold onto as a proverbial ace up her sleeve? You may find out if you raise it.
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24
