- she's done a few pop-ins and walks in the house (and upstairs), I let it go. - still says "we" all the time. - lost her mind a couple times that "I won't talk to her!" I told her I'm open to talking any time (I'm just not going to start the conversation unless I need something). - still wants to go to Disney World "as a family." I'm conflicted about that one. - she's still seeing a therapist a couple times a month, and an intuitive. - recently we talked about a few things and I asked if she was happy, she said "I am." She asked if I was and I said "I am - some things are better, some things aren't"...she welled up and left.
We're still married, been to four mediators in eight months and she just can't find one she likes. I'm like - our finances, property, assets, and custody are split. All we have to do is re-balance retirement accounts and file. We're basically done, I don't get it.
As for me I still have a down day here and there, but overall feel like I'm doing really well. I've detached. Work is great, having fun with friends (and by myself), kids are great, and I got a girlfriend.
Sixteen months in we still haven't talked about why we are here, but I've accepted that is probably not happening.
