I suppose I could go read everything in your situation - but how were you able to get sole custody? I'm at the legal stage in my situation and have asked for full custody.
My son lives with me and sees his mom Wednesday nights and once a weekend. She agreed to this with me two months ago. She's bailed twice now on her weekend day with him to be out with friends.
Glad you are happy!
Documentation is key. I kept a daily journal of when she did or didn't see the kids. As simple as writing the date and "No Contact" if she did not see or talk to them that day. If it was her scheduled day and she bailed, I would write the date, the time she was supposed to have them and "No Contact"....
In my case, it was easy because she agreed to giving me sole custody. She's also an addict and having the kids was cramping her lifestyle...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019