Make plans when she wants to come for dinner or go out with you for dinner.
Or just start saying "no thanks, I don't want to have dinner with you while you're with OM".
You're not so sure because you want to believe she's having second thoughts. IF she wanted to work on the marriage you would know.
Listen man, my W said all sorts of positive things that I took to heart and I believed she was reconsidering. However, there still wasn't any physical affection from her and here we are now going through a separation agreement with our lawyers. When I look back, she really didn't give me any indication that she was interested in a R with me.
Don't be her puppy dog.
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019