What are the consequences if you set the boundary and she breaks it?
Why is it hard for you to deny a woman that is seeking out intimacy with another man?
I supposed if she breaks the boundary, I would tell her no more dinners together until she completely stops all communication with the OM.
And it’s hard to deny her because she’s the love of my life. What can I say?
Also, sometimes I feel like instead of “cake-eating”, she may be genuinely trying to test the waters with me to see if our relationship is worth another shot. I know you say it’s “cake-eating”, but sometimes I’m not so sure. At least, this is what goes through my mind.
