Thank you both. That was good advice, I’ve been spinning, trying desperately at the 11th hour.

I just got this text from H:

So I think it’s time to get a mediator before we head into court unless you want to just figure it out between us. I think the mediator is free through the court though

When he says head into court, I believe he is referring to the status check in court date scheduled for November.
I know I can’t stop this train and I just want to respond in the best DB way possible. Can someone help?