Oh man I’m feeling your pain and confusion brother. I’m absorbing some of it for you mate to give you some headspace.
How’s your son’s croup? Keep an eye on his tonsils and temperature. Don’t hesitate to go back to hospital if needed.
Can you afford temporary storage for your stuff or store with a mate? Can you afford Airbnb or similar if you don’t find a place in time? Caravan park? Just something temporary. You don’t want to rush into a lease.
What’s a quit claim?
If your heads spinning make sure you keep a notebook with you to map things out and jot things down. This plays havoc on short term memory and rapid decision making.
I found insight timer app helped calm my mind when it was racing. Davidji and David gandelman are so soothing!
Nothing I’ve read suggests your mindset is distorted.
Stay strong mate and stay the course. You’re your children’s rock. Cheers ds
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24