What Scout said. Not that my sitch is the same as yours but my H was always nervous and pleasant around me whenever he had to spend more than two minutes in my presence. My take on it was that he was lying his a$$ off to me about what he was doing and was scared I might find out and let loose on him (not that I ever have). He wanted me to have some hope because it kept things really pleasant and upbeat. Do not do anything to try to affect him. Believe me...it will backfire. Live your life for you. If he ever wants to come back and make things work, he will make it crystal clear and you will not be confused about it. (((HUGS)))
