I'm sorry to hear about this. Sorry, I'm not familiar with your sitch. Was this a final order handed down by the Judge after a trial? Sounds like it.
Check with your legal team as to availability and prospects of appealing the decision. YOu'll no doubt have a time limit to do this, so get onto it asap.
All the best, DS
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24