Fox

I dont blame you...for not wanting to stand

I think many of us here, give it the time
2-5 years of healing and seeing where our H land--

We all have needs and choices and if our H cant step back in the R after a reasonable healing time-
We can make the choice for them
But some want to stand for longer and hold on to the vows and that is fine too
It is a personal choice

It seems the hardest part is over...the path to acceptance that this M may be over for good-

good luck


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow