Originally Posted by Ready2Change


Glad to hear. Much better arrangement.


Are you familiar with "Clicker training" for your dogs? It is amazing. Works with any age dogs.

I showed my kids how it worked. I worked on both dogs to hold eye contact. Less than 30 minutes. Now they both just stare me down.

I am familiar with it but haven't tried it. Might need to with my bigger dog. He doesn't like to listen very well. He's one of the "SQUIRREL!!!!" Types lol. My little one she listens pretty well for the most part.

As for the latest, things have been going great. I'm all settled into my place, spent the day today doing some yard work making the outside look good. Pressure washing, mowing etc.

Also had my meeting with the lawyer last Monday and she's getting my paperwork ready to send to the STBXW. Ready to get this part over with. Although I'm moving myself forward as if it's already done.

I've also decided to somewhat put myself back out there. I've been talking with a couple woman the last few days and may be arranging a date in the near future. Feeling pretty good about it 😊

Monday I'll be going kayaking down the river for some volunteer river clean up through my work. I've done this in the past and it's lots of fun. One year I had the best haul by bring in an engine block that someone dumped in the river.

Can't wait for Friday, myself and 5 friends are heading to the east coast for a concert and have rented a pool house for the night. It's gonna be a fun night, then head to the beach the following day before driving home.


M(32) W(30)
Together 12yrs
Married 2yrs
ILYBNILWY 11/23/18
EA Discovered 3/20/19

In House separation 11/26/18 - 11/29/18 & 1/10/19-3/20/19
W Moved out 3/20/19
M Moved out 5/31/19
W Filed for D 3/3/2020