Hi Rooskers, please take this as my humble opinion and from my experience. Your D needs to be validated and sometimes this needs to be done by a professional as well as yourself. Your Exw is projecting and thats not healthy for your D. My W left 5 years ago and now only has contact with1 of my 4 children and even with the 1 child shes only sees her every few months ( at d15s request) .
It has taken 5 years for Exw to realise what she lost re her children and Exw kept digging herself a deeper hole re the kids for the first 4 years she was gone.
Keep strong for your D and know you are being her strength and rock throughout the turmoil she is living through. Lots of chapters are still to be written in your book of life and when you get to the end of the book you want to look back and know that every choice you made was for the benefit of D.
