I think too much talking. If he brings it up (that he wanted more autonomy when you were together) then you can validate but it sounds as though you are trying to explain his feelings for him.

H 37
W 31
S 2

T: 7
M: 4

BD 12/18
Separated 2/19
Living back together 04/06/2019
W Moved out again 07/15/2019