Hi I’m just thinking about the future a bit. I’m hoping you will consider letting me take D4 to LA or Washington to see family. Obviously there is more to discuss and I know it’s more complex for you, but at least you can give it some thought. You get to take her to Tahoe for overnights and such so I’m hoping you’d see a reciprocal allowance.....?
I feel completely sick. The context here is important. D4 has never spent the night with H, so this is a huge leap. I’m not even close to comfortable with these scenarios. And also, I’ve taken D4 away for overnight trips because 1) she spends every night with me and 2) I wanted to take her on family trips, he could have been along for any and all of them had he wanted to be.
