Separated and sorting #3

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Hey U, will echo others and say that I'm glad that you have more time with the kids.

Your comment about your W feeling the "no's" more than the "yes's" resonates so much. My W is convinced that I treated her like a doormat for our entire relationship and that she never got anything she wanted. It's patently insane but, as you've said, there's nothing you can do yourself to change her mind.

I LOVE your "Expectations are reservations for future resentments." quote. Sums up many of my/W's relationship issues.

Hope you've got some good plans for this weekend.