Kml thank you for your very interesting insight. It’s great to finally find someone answers to my endless questions after all this time and it’s certainly very much appreciated. Is it good or bad that I’m neither surprised or upset at the possibility of H having had an A, emotional or otherwise? I think I’m actually reaching a point of not caring.

To any newbies who are unfortunately joining so many of us on this journey I just want to say that despite how it feels or looks it does get easier and you will get through this. 2 1/2 years ago my life felt like it was falling apart and I was literally terrified of what lay ahead. But even though you can’t see it now you will be ok and you will get your life back on track. I promise you, you will be ok sooner than you realise. Our WAS on the other hand, who knows what awaits them. But Karma always bites back.

Now I just need to wait and see if H actually does get himself a new lawyer without the threat of court action. I really do hope so.