My therapist thought it might help her open up down the road too, or even push her subconsciously to get moving on her own IC.
This feels contrary to DB principles. Definitely don't be sharing things with the hopes your W will change.
Originally Posted by jac12
After that she talked about her day and then mentioned that her lawyer needed to know some details on our mortgage and my investments, so that was a bit of a downer. I expect it but it [censored] hearing her talk about this like it's no big deal to her. I just said no problem what do you need and I'll send it to you.
You handled it great.
Originally Posted by jac12
This weekend she's having her mom stay at her place so she can look after our son while my W goes to an auto show. This bugs me. She only gets 1 full day a week with our son (and he only gets one with his mom) and she's prioritizing an auto show with friends over time with him. It always makes me wonder why she thinks I'm the problem...I'm one of many people she has disconnected from.
Have you heard of the concept of "right of first refusal?"
Originally Posted by jac12
She also is going to have her mom live with her for a month or two. Not sure what to think of that. Her mom wants us to work things out and she wants her to do IC so that's good. Her and I have a good relationship too.
I would try as hard as you can to let go of trying to read something into this.
Originally Posted by jac12
We should be finalizing our S agreement over the next few weeks. I really hope I'll get custody of our son - I'll be fighting for full custody.
Are you documenting things going on? For instance, your W choosing to do other things during her parenting time? A daily journal or similar may help you in a legal situation (obvious caveat I am not a lawyer).
