I have a question. I have been reading 5 love langueages and man does it explain a lot. I definitely messed up my wife’s love language. I was wondering, can I give her a copy?
I think she would naturally resist any reading/listening material that you suggest or give her. I love this book but seldom suggest the LBS read it. Why? B/c they react in the very same way you did.
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2 reasons why; 1 Maybe she would see I was trying I got her love language wrong.
No, Wolf, it would only give her more reason to be angry with you.
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2 it talks about not being in love anymore but love is a choice and it can come back if we fill a person’s “love tank”. I don’t know, it might be a stretch.
Oh no, she would really buck up about this one. Choosing to love is polar opposite from what she wants.
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I really wish I read this book a long time ago. I know now spending time and words of affirmation is her 2 love languages. Not buying gifts and doing things. Sad how I screwed that up!!
I suspect we all had similar thoughts or feelings after reading the book. We don't know what we don't know. Now that you know, go forward implementing what you know.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
