This is my first post on this board despite BD being almost 3 years ago. My H would appear to be in the minority as I’ve never uncovered any kind of affair. He filed for D Nov 17 and moved out Dec 17 a day before our 7 year wedding anniversary. He’s been through the usual, change in how he dresses, lots of holidays abroad, spewing, tantrums and complete personality change etc. He’s calmed down loads this year and started to show signs of his old self on occasions but we are clearly far from done as today has shown whilst at mediation. It was revealed to me today that he has dropped his legal representation and hasn’t been using them for sometime as he wasn’t really happy with them. What a surprise. We have been having months of mediation and now he’s realised that it’s time to find a new lawyer as he doesn’t like anything that I’m asking for in the settlement. The mediator is pushing to try and bring this to an end but he just keeps putting up blocks. 2 years ago he was desperate to have this D and yet his efforts are so half hearted. Why on earth do they insist on a D only to then drag it out. He goes on about wanting to move on with his life but then leaves everything hanging. It’s like he puts in just enough effort to make it seem like he’s cooperating when in-fact he’s doing nothing. Will this ever come to an end?
