4 months in....(Re: Advice needed)

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K

You will notice an immediate calm in your home with the negative energy gone
The leaving /ow seems to be a standard part of the MLC journey

MY XH came over quite a lot at the beginning 3-4 times a week sometimes to talk to me
sometimes to take or be with the kids

then they usually get worse
they use substances to deal with their pain because most cant/wont do traditional therapy to heal
and they have to cover it up
their choices also reap more pain so I believe they add to the underlying childhood issues as they continue to run from themselves

My children adjusted..yes it was hard in the beginning for them..then they got used to it and felt at ease knowing
I was there, was never leaving and he was available at times