I suppose I’m wondering what now? His parting words were “ let me know when you are ready to talk” which actually I think should be the other way round.
I plan on NC unless it’s regarding the kids. I think In his mind he thinks he can come round when he feels like it which won’t be the case.
Wondering what now. Yes, that is to be expected.
You are correct, H needs to be the one who is ready to talk. Be kind, and be NC except for kids.
He has moved out. See a L and get some legalities out of the way - car, tenancy, accounts, custody, etc. Again have the talk, you can decide which to proceed with.
I agree with you, H most likely feels he can come and go as his pleases. You may be alright with that or not. I think changing the locks is not unreasonable, and he can call if he needs to come over. This is of course assuming that is legally ok to do.
Time to focus and concentrate on you and your kids.
How did the discussion with the kids go?
(((Kristy)))
Hang in there.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
