CW, this is what I thought and am going to meet w a L next week. This is #2 L, the back up plan which I learned years ago in business. Got a logical one to start but the bulldog is in my back pocket if needed and now blocked from W retaining her. With that said, it’s pointing to W stalling.
When we had the few conversations, she says she can’t move on but has an excuse for everything such as moving out, selling property, not having a place to buy as she isn’t going to rent...on and on. Mind you, she has put away a six figure nest egg she slipped up and told me about that she has been working on the past couple years while I am keeping everything afloat. Talk about a slight trust issue. She could buy a place for cash for what she wants. Furthermore her sis moved to a shore home and still has her home in town which is sitting vacant 80% of the time. Suggested she move there and her response was, “not in that town, besides you could move to your brother’s house”. Yup, I could if we didn’t have livestock to tend to.
Other issues have surfaced w D2, she has no respect for me(a learned trait from W) and W and D2 are BFFs. This crap is getting very frustrating and the disrespect from her is becoming a part of the overall issue. W will not engage in supporting me nor has she for quite some time. This family has become disfunctional and W has driven it to this point. D1 says just ignore them many times as she has had her fill with them as well. Just one more reason to move on. I don’t see any way to reverse this with W so controlling. I feel beat down by all of this but I’m going to chalk it up to a bad day and hope for a better day tomorrow.
Was hoping life would be easier at this age.....
Me 58 W 58 T 36 yrs. M 32 yrs D 27 D 23 BD 8/3/19 Waiting for filing from W
