She said she had a very bad day at work. I said I’m sorry you had a bad day. She said I’ve had a bad 30 years (she is 30 years old). I reached out to rub her back a little. (She said she has been enjoying it lately so I know). But she said please don’t and got all angry sounding.
Ozman, I'd definitely take a step back on back rubs and talking to her earnestly about cancer. I wouldn't describe you as back to Day 1. Some things have improved, some things have worsened.
Edit: I see R2C mentioned validation. Do you know what made her day rough?
