H is moving out tonight. Because I have said I will keep the car he apparently can’t get to work easily unless he moves in closer with his “friend”. He has justified over and over that this is his only option.
Whether this is ow or his friend I don’t know. I think it will be telling the kids that breaks my heart most. He also asked if He can come back on Friday night while I go out with work on a night out!
He has said that he needs to be away from here to see if he misses me etc or if there is anything left worth fighting for. He said that he loves me but there is no spark, he can’t breathe in this house, feels trapped etc. Oh and also he doesn’t like to watch the same things as me on Netflix.
I was going to buy the house we rent. His name is still on the tenancy so he will need to remove it himself before Incan do anything. In terms of money we have separate accounts but I have most things in place. I can do the child payments legally or just directly from him. While I think the first month he will pay up its the months after that I think I may have to do it legally.
We haven’t discussed splitting anything as he said he doesn’t know how long this will be for.
He actually seems in high spirits about going which is sad.
