I am right there with you Ske. This forum has been a godsend. I wasn’t able to save my marriage (probably not a bad thing) but they have definitely helped me save myself. I don’t think I would be doing nearly as well as I am if it weren’t for the people on here who stick around and offer advice long after they have moved on from their sitches. Glad you are finding the forum as helpful as I have found it. (((HUGS)))