You should and need to get angry. Just find a better release for it than blowing up at him. Go for a run, get a punching bag, punch the stuffing out of a pillow, something physical - sweat it out of you.
It’s perfectly normal to be angry. And that anger has to go somewhere.
With the car in your name, for sure use it. You’ve told him, stick to it, let him walk miles in the rain.
Enough is enough and you stood up for yourself - Well done! Stand tall girl. Now find an outlet for the anger (other than H) and keep standing tall.
Originally Posted by Kristy84
What to do now in regards to him I’m not sure as he will use this as justification to go probably.
He will find justification with anything or make it up. He may or may not go. You cannot control him. And don’t worry about blowing all that DBing, no single event will make or break the situation.
The question is: What to do now in regards to you.
Stand tall. Focus on you.
You go this.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
