A year on and standing

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Hi neffer,

Yes for now I am still detaching and not holding expectations. Holding up the family and focusing on the kids. I never discuss to her anything about marriage and only keep conversations short with regards to day to day matters or regarding the kids.

Like 2 days back she suddenly told me that she will be out of town next week for another holiday. I told her sure ok. Just lt me know if she'll like me to drop her at the air port or pick her up when she is back ( No special intent for this. Just goodwill ). Then she said she never check the time of her flight yet and I told her just let me know if she likes to.

And next Saturday is my Dad's birthday and there will be a family gathering. I told her about the event and just join us if she'll like to.

GAL been fine. My knee recovered and I'm back to jogging and exercising. Felt good after exerting it all on the track and covered in sweat. Recently, with the kids, she's also doing the "My stand is same as you". When I discipline the kids and they went to her, she stood by my stance which I think would be good for the kids.

Oh yeah, something funny happened. Last year we acted as a separated family in a short film by a common friend. The script was me and my wife were separated with each of us taking along a kid and then reunited in the end. Along the while in real life since bomb dropped, she had been talking to the kids about separation.

Thus while tugging in the kids to sleep couple of days ago, the elder one suddenly blurted out that "we will be separated like the film we acted in and that fulfills your wish for separation." Next the younger one echoed "Yeah I will be with mum as like in the film and you will be dad" After that she was kinda taken aback and told them that it's all just scripted and it's friction. I guess that moment did someone knock her senses a bit for always talking to the kids about separation which in her words, "preparing them for it".

Till far, I have not receive any notification from her Lawyer although she claimed that she had filed for more than a month back.