She is temp checking. She is testing you. Pass the test.
Originally Posted by rooskers
. I responded with I care and wish you the best of luck and I would be glad to drop of and pick up D13
Better :
H:"I wish you the best of luck and I would be glad to drop off and pick up D13"
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"Saying thank you doesn't express how truly thankful I am to you for being willing to help with that during my surgery recovery. I will give you copies of all Dr Fife's recovery instructions and I won't be taking any narcotic pain medication while D13 is visiting. I'll be requesting non opioid pain medication. I will keep my home environment safe for D13 at all times. I see the therapist tomorrow and want to ask about a way to keep communication open with D13 and you. You haven't let me know if you want a mediated visit with the therapist but that will remain an open invite if you choose that."
Best is not to respond. Respond only to direct questions, and even then, short as possible. IF you ABSOLUTELY NEED TO RESPOND, then the next best option is H"Thanks"
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Two days ago she was threatening me on email that I wasn't providing D13 with proper care. I would love to hear opinions.
Personally, I would be skeptical of anything she says. You are looking for a consistent change in behavior of the long term.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712