Originally Posted by Ready2Change

Originally Posted by HrtHsbnd
I feel my situation is very different because of the parent involvement.
I most likely have you beat in the "Too involved grandparents department".


It doesn't matter.


The only thing that matters is making positive changes to you, for you and your son.


Focus on your personal growth.

Read this post and all the threads it links to:
https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2846984



Challenge all your current beliefs. Make changes to the way you interact with people.



Learn new behaviors that are attractive. Drop the behaviors that are not attractive.






R2C, is dead on. Hrt, we all try to find loopholes and reasons why our sitches are unique or different. The fact of the matter is that her parents are no different then an OM. We've seen this on these forums before. Whether it is a group of divorcees, a BFF, an Other Person, the parents, the grandparents, a sibling, etc. Here is the deal: You have no control over HER or HER parents. That is why we say focus on you. It isn't just because that is where your focus SHOULD BE, it is also because there really is no other place for your focus TO BE.

When you eliminate everyone that you can't control, the only person left is the one person you can control. Yourself.

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