XW after months of being nasty and threatening is all of a sudden being cordial in her emails. She mentioned in one of her emails that she was having surgery soon and couldn't pick D13 up or drop her off for visitation and would have her friends do it, then said something like not that you care or anything. I responded with I care and wish you the best of luck and I would be glad to drop of and pick up D13. Her response was the following:
"Saying thank you doesn't express how truly thankful I am to you for being willing to help with that during my surgery recovery. I will give you copies of all Dr Fife's recovery instructions and I won't be taking any narcotic pain medication while D13 is visiting. I'll be requesting non opioid pain medication. I will keep my home environment safe for D13 at all times. I see the therapist tomorrow and want to ask about a way to keep communication open with D13 and you. You haven't let me know if you want a mediated visit with the therapist but that will remain an open invite if you choose that."
This is the first non-threatening email in months. Why do I feel so on edge about it? She has never mentioned a mediated visit with the therapist during this whole process so I am not sure what she is even talking about. Why in the heck would she want to give me her recovery instructions, we are divorced and I haven't been in contact with her except by email since it was finalized two months ago. Two days ago she was threatening me on email that I wasn't providing D13 with proper care. I would love to hear opinions.
Last edited by rooskers; 09/10/1904:52 AM.
1st BD December 26, 2008 PA admitted to by XW December 29, 2008
2nd BD May 23, 2019 Daughter confirms EA Divorce Finalized July 18, 2019
