Thanks for your help. This is where my emotions run high. I can cope with the comments regarding me “everything you do annoys me (I was brushing my hair) After being possibly a little argumentative initially I realised and said that I think it’s best discussed once he has moved out and the children aren’t in earshot.
He does all of a sudden keep saying he is taking the computer, the car etc etc which I don’t even respond to and as for finances one day he says he won’t leave me short and the next that he will not pay a penny more than he legally has to! Also one minute it’s a nasty comment, the next “I care for you so much still (tears in eyes)” so it is a rollercoaster isn’t it. Hopefully one day I’ll get off!
He tried the feelings trap again too but I dodged for another day. “Why aren’t you fighting for this Relationship if I meant so much to you you would do” etc
Also the ow husband has messaged me to say she is on the verge of moving out with her children (2&6) which I’m trying to not think about either.
I will seek advice regarding the kids. Funnily enough he threatened to take legal action against me for the kids when I wouldn’t agree to his plans. Another tantrum.
He seems to think he is control of everything. And thanks DnJ I have planned a day out the day he moves out!
