4 months in....(Re: Advice needed)

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K

DNJ is so right

Yes please see a L-if you have not
Many will do a free consultation

If you have a friend who saw a good L get a referral/number
It definitely will help you with the issues of shared custody if he does leave

The MLCer seems to think they will get to call the shots and also get to keep things like the property and their salary
Many a mlcer does not realize they will need to follow a legal agreement

Don't sign anything or agree to anything until you get proper counsel
Please don't skip this step

If he pressures you --or If he asks for an answer, just say you need a little time to digest it all and will get back to him