I feel my situation is very different because of the parent involvement. I see what you’re saying about talking every day, but it’s just because of our son.
Would you care to tell me what your thoughts are and how I could’ve handled this better?
She decided that if she didn’t want to talk to me on webchat she could just walk away, even when I’m not trying to talk to her. So, I decided to do the same to honor her wishes.
Last night, she got on webchat with our son. We were busy playing soccer in the backyard and he didn’t really want to talk to her. I let her see him, not me. He must’ve moved out of her sight because she demanded to see him. I gave her a look like calm down you just needed to let me know. She snapped at me rudely and I told her that I didn’t appreciate the attitude. I would hang up if she didn’t stop . She just started crying and cried until the end of the call. Lack of respect has been a big issue with her lately.
At that point I would’ve usually asked why she was so upset or even sent her a text, but I didn’t. She would normally send me a derogatory text, but she didn’t either.
I wasn’t rude in the least or passive aggressive. I will just not tolerate disrespect anymore.
Ohh and I’ll not shake her hand anymore!
Originally Posted by LH19
H,
No obviously that’s not good for the marriage for not wanting to talk to one another.
Your situation is sort of bizarre because she filed for D then you guys decided to go to MC. Obviously she knows you’re not moving on because your in MC with her.
You guys seem to talk everyday so I can’t see how it’s possible for her to miss you.
