Divorce because I betrayed her trust - THREAD 2

[DaB35]

Drafted this (email):

"Here is a summary of the 3 agents and their prices, based on 4 different prices increasing by £5k each time. (attachment) 

I appreciate that you are anxious to move forward with selling our house, so I am therefore happy to leave the organisation of getting it on sale in your hands especially since you are at the house more than me.

My preference is {name of agent} as we will each end up with over £1,000 more compared to the other two. 

I am also waiting for {bank name} to contact me, as we may have to get one of their own valuers to look at the house instead of the agents, which will cost more money.

I am busy during the week but free at the weekend. Let's meet up Sunday afternoon, and I can collect the mail also.

Thanks - glad the arrangement* went down well."

*(this is the bit of work I posted to her that she thanked me for at the weekend)


I think this is ok - I'm not angry, don't think there's any passive-aggressive styuff in there, and I'm being neutral and unconfrontational.


VAPO - I forgave myself a while ago. I am not a bad man. I messed up and I'm taking care of my issues. At this stage I'm thinking, it's her loss. My parents believe that she will regret reacting to this extent, but won't ever admit it as she's too proud.