Yes mate just tell her you’ll meet up and do whats needed to buy time. Go through the motions with the broker. Heck go through several! If you know the answer already that’s ok as you’re buying time. That’s what you want isn’t it?

Yes let her lead. You’re too busy with your new work project!

Me: early 40's
XW: nearly 50
T: 15
M: 5
BD: Jan 19
S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24