What are everyone's thoughts on things like closing out joint bank accounts, credit cards, etc? Not wearing my wedding ring?
Re rings, from a female prospective. Do what feels right. You can always say it doesn't fit right (too big/small) if someone questions it, and you're not sure how to answer. I'm in between with the ring. For me, it's a symbol of what I want. Most times I wear my band. I'm always taking it off to do things too. I don't wear my engagement ring as much. I've been wearing a different ring that I bought. It's $10, tarnished and says LOVE. But I do switch to the bling ring for appearances...lol.. but really, do what feels right. My mlcH hasn't worn his in a while. Only when I asked/reminded him, like anniversary. "It's too tight!" It hurt to see him no wear it. Now it has a whole new hurt feeling.
And what about family pictures? Gosh I've taken them down and put them up etc etc... leaving them up for my kid.
I'm with you on letting the one in mlc do the "work". You do you.
~Never Give Up ~ 2019 Mar BD June BD Dec Aow/xgf 2020 Jan he wants D Feb he flys2 ow Mar returns stuck here C19 Lckdwn Apr he leaves for work until Nov Oct D FINAL 2020 Living MY Happiest Life Ever
