I do at some point need to go to the house to collect other items anyway as i need them for work.

Should I email her my agents' summary of overall costs, then suggest we meet at the weekend to go through stuff?

I'm a bit nervous about how to respond to be honest. I assume I should make it clear that she should take the lead with selling - or is that not wise? I have a preferred agent.

I hate the thought of losing our beautiful house. I don't want to lose it.

Shall I mention about her living alone being her choice? There are so many things I want to say but think I shouldn't!


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020