Unfortunately before I knew before this site and DBing, when I was doing all the wrong things - I sent him an email with all my feelings and where I had gone wrong in the relationship etc etc and he mentions it ALL the time. I feel that he will leave this week, I think the ow is pressuring him to do so and maybe once he goes he can at least learn some consequences. Also the atmosphere in the house when he is home can be awful. He’s either really high or really low/angry. I am actually looking forward to some stability for the children.
Obviously I don’t want him to go but have come to see that letting him free will give him his lesson which I think he needs. He also seems to think he’ll be popping round when he feels like it as friends as he said he will still need me to talk to!
