I agree with DNJ

There is nothing you can say
he is probably feeling extremely conflicted confused and guilty because deep inside he probably knows
this new fantasy life will fail..He wants you to prove to him he is making the right choice by creating drama

so stay the course, chanced are he will make a choice--it may be the wrong one but it will be his learning lesson
I like how you have the ability to see above the crises and focus on your promotion and other life things

Heal and adjust..no matter his choice you will be ok-

you will know more soon-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow