Over time, I started to have moments of feeling okay and having hope I would be okay no matter what. Those moments turned into hours and later on, into days. ))
This gives me hope! It’s super relatable and it makes me feel like the fleeting moments I’m having are the beginning of a material change. Thank you!
I realized my biggest mistake the other night when taking to H was that I reacted (however calmly) to his bringing up D stuff. I think I should have just cordially agreed to take the steps he was suggesting? Does that sound right?
I’m preparing to attempt a better approach for the next tine this comes up, which is likely to be soon. Because of the other nights blunder, I can now rest assured he knows where I stand, I don’t need to tell him again. (As if he didn’t already HA!) My hurdles/focus from here on out will be detachment/pulling WAY back, and just agreeing to go along worst steps toward D (unless you guys tell me that’s not quite right...)
