You have to set your boundaries and some of your expectations. The beginning of recon will be all this passion and out of nowhere/boom then the real work will start. All the questions and doubts will form. You will go up and down, round and round. I'm just preparing you for what will come.
IMO, the R conversation needs to be light and direct. Don't make it too heavy. Recon will talk a while, and both of you will have plenty of time to get into heavy convo.
Problems won't be solved with this talk, but some important information can be presented. You need to inform her of the things you will and won't tolerate and the things you can and cannot live with.
I would write them down and rehearsed them so you can tell her in a clear and concise way and you can know exactly what you want.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
