Hey hey, so I received her response to my filing papers yesterday. Nothing crazy on it and 50/50 custody. She texted me asking that in the next few days we go out to dinner and “talk about things” IE talk about working on it.
Lol I guess progress is being made considering 5 months ago she was “done” but there is still a lot of work to be done.
What I’m really hoping for advice on, is how I should approach this R working on it discussion. I want her in IC and if that works out I want MC down the road. I don’t know a numerical timeline for this. I would also like to go on a date once a week without son. Full transparency would be good too, I’ve never been an insecure snooping guy but I’d like to know that if I wanted to look I could.
After I got her response we talked a bit, she said that she really wished we would have talked about it before the deadline. I’ve noticed a change in her wording lately. A few months ago all blame was on me: “you did this, you didn’t do that”. Recently it seems to have shifted to “we should have” or even “I should or shouldn’t have done so and so”. I feel this is a good sign and she seems to be caring of my feelings which was the polar opposite during BD.
I know it’s the weekend and everyone is busy but if someone could drop some quick advice on how to manage the upcoming R talk it would be really appreciated! Thanks all
