I've decided I will not reply. I have to stop thinking of her expectantly waiting for a "thanks" text from me. She won't be doing that. Nor will she be texting later asking "why are you ignoring me?" - I assume she won't do that anyway!

She hasn't chased for the house stuff, so I'm going to wait on that too til at least after the weekend.

I've had a fairly relaxed day - exercise in the morning, got the car washed, worked on some hobby stuff, watched some funny YouTube vids, and then I discovered there was a little food festival going on in town so went to that. Had some delicious bao steamed buns and bought some nice garlic oil. I then cooked for my parents - got good feedback from the dinner!

I have thought about W a little. Nothing sad, just about her as a person really. I haven't thought about the house though.


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020