I cheated, we survived, now my wife's cheating

[JC08]

So a thing I struggle with some is where to draw the line on doing things that help her. As stated we have 4 kids, there has been 3 times already since I moved out where she had a 7 am meeting and has the kids. So I go out, wake the kids up, get them ready, take them to school and babysittiter.

Is this just enabling her? I mean this is part of the divorce she wants, shouldn't she gave to figure out that there is consequences for leaving, for divorce. I go and do it because I feel like it keeps me in good light, but she says thanks, but that's it. Doesn't talk to me when I get there, doesn't say have a good day, nothing, like it is just expected of me. I had no problem when we were together, but she wants to change that. Thoughts?