Deciding When To Move On

[HrtHsbnd]

I have been going to IC for about 9 months and long before this started. I enjoy it and have gotten a lot out of it. I also enjoy MC because the MC usually agrees with me because she’s so out there.

Does that change your advice?

Hey, MC with a partner that isn't committed to the Marv is usually a waste of time. If strongly urge you to really consider stopping MC.

Tell her:

"I've decided that MC isn't appropriate right now. However, I have issues I need to work through so I'm going to start IC instead."

This does 2 things. It sends the messages that you are into just going through the emotions. And that you are still working on yourself.